• cmbabul@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    This right here, I have never had any luck moving a single person I currently communicate with from iMessage. Dating makes this even more complicated.

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      1 day ago

      Lol fr. Well I’m not a dater person by any means but my mindset is they kinda have to be tight friends with you first right? Unless you date around like crazy and don’t develop actual connections

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        1 day ago

        We have wildly different dating philosophies. Friends for me always stay friends. If my intentions ain’t explicitly romantic at the outset they never get there. Additionally I’ve had a lot of deep connections by dating around.

        But this kinda illustrates part of the problem with dating. None of us seem to have the same approach or philosophy