This is the thing as a former white man.

Authority to touch others flows down the privilege hierarchy.

Trans women are always judged as the aggressor, always. Our bodies are considered public property.

And nothing of value was lost

I mentioned this story to my friend: “it only took six weeks of using Gemini to decide to kill himself wtf”

He immediately replied “I have to use Gemini at work and I get where he was coming from”